Wanting to share some learning about passivity.

Yesturday I sat in a cafe and for the third time in the same cafe the
same woman sat with her child (girl, 4-6 years) and she spoke in a way
that was painfull for me to hear, she used demands, threats of
punishment, blame and all the classical jackal motivators to her child.
This was the third time in the same cafe doing the same stuff to her
child, I could not find a way to work (dong my computer work) so I
just imagening killing her, punishing her, and then I thougt how would
that help the child?
Guess not at all, maby that would have made her life even more hard
having her mother take out her frustration on her even more...

I did my breathing, my HeartMath and my jacal translations.
I was on my way to talk to her 3 times, and choose not to, because I
realy did not find a place for her in my heart.

Today on my way to kindergarden with Neo I finaly found a way to speak
to her and at the same time hold her needs as mine.

So I cellibrate with you that noticing passivity, and then having
tools to transform that into compassionate action will work for
everyone.

So now I look forward to meeting her agian, just hoping she has not
transformed her way of beeing so I don´t get to practice my inner work
with her.

And if I don´t find her I can always write to the local paper about
how to love mothers that do the jackal show in cafés .  

Kay Rung

I got this text from a email and hope it brings some inspiration and clarity for you. 

When I hear the word "terrorist" applied to an individual, I imagine:

1. Someone who is passionate about contributing to the dignity and
autonomy of their people

2. Someone who wants other people to understand the pain they
experience in not having those needs met.

3. Someone who feels so despairing about their needs being honored
that they are choosing strategies to meet those needs which include violence

4. Someone who hopes their strategies will be effective at meeting
their needs by: